How often are you surprised when you are reading a romance novel and the heroine is described as full figured? What is full figured? Is it a size 10, 12 or 16 and up?
All too often our society labels things inappropriately. Kudos to the ladies who can eat what ever they want and not gain a pound. Kudos to the ladies who eat what they want and work out at the gym to cancel out those calories. I myself am a thicker girl (see the brave pictures below). I'm often found in a struggle between self acceptance and self hatred. I make efforts to eat healthy and exercise but find myself often "falling of the proverbial wagon" more often than not. I am learning to accept and love myself - all of me, no exceptions. Finding realistic heroines to relate to is helping.
It's refreshing when you find a good novel or even a novella that is written about a heroine that you can relate to. Personality wise, I find myself matching up to several of the heroines in the novels I choose. It's rare that I find one that matches me body type and all. But - I've found them. And LOVED them!
Photo courtesy of "a Bitt of You Photography"
Trying to look serious
Photo courtesy of "a Bitt of You Photography"
I got photo bombed by a vagrant!
What books have you read that you relate to?
Below you will find a list of just some of the books that Ravishing Romances has identified a realistic heroine:
Heroine Lady Elyne de Burgh is described as an ordinary, common looking girl with little bossom. The hero thinks of her as a "drowned rat" - see swimming at night scene
The Sleeping Night by Barbara Samuel
Heroine Angel Corey is described a very average girl who's not quite a beauty due to her pale coloring with callouses on her feet.
Love Me by Bella Andre
Heroine Lilli is a size 16 woman with self image issues.
Heavy Issues by Elle Aycart
Heroine Christy is overweight and surrounded by skinny friends and she has body issues due to stretch marks and what she calls fat rolls.
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